I'm asked daily in my practice by clients if they are soul mates with the person they are seeking answers about. I would like to clear up some misconceptions about the term soul mates and what a true spiritual tie can mean. I would like to point out that the terms soul mates and twin flames do tend to be thrown around a lot by people the same way 'best friends' can be. It isn't always an accurate way to describe someone.
At times in our lives we may feel a strong connection to a person that we just can't explain, usually also there is an instant attraction or 'love at first sight' syndrome as they say. However also I have seen many times people who have been close friends for many years suddenly developing an overwhelming attraction that they can't deny. In either case this shows strong signs of a true spiritual connection. Sometimes we want to believe that someone is our true soul mate and they will never be replaced. In some cases yes this is true however generally we do have more than one soul mate in a lifetime. Sadly sometimes during a reading clients are told what they 'hope' to hear that they are soul mates and a fairytale romance will soon develop from the ashes and you both will be happy for eternity. Sometimes this may be true other times it's not. It's a hard thing for a reader to be upfront and honest with a client when things don't look so positive but in the long run it will be a healing thing rather than a painful one. I have to tell clients everyday in my practice things they don't want to hear such as he isn't coming back, he/she has someone else and it's time to move on. I promise you even though it does hurt today the pain will banish and someone right will come your way.
How To Tell
Sure signs of a soul connection
- Quickly bonding and connecting
- Getting a feeling that the two of you can't be apart without this feeling fading or lessoning over time
- Dreaming about a person before meeting them
- Being in tune with the other person on a psychic level - feeling a sense of intuition with the other person
- Feeling a connection at times even if you aren't sure why
- Having a sense of nervousness when away from the other person for extended periods of time
Signs it's not a strong spiritual connection
- Lack of communication that drags out and is hard to re-establish
- The other person shows interest in more than one person at a time
- The other person has no problem ignoring contact or keeping distance when things go wrong
- You get a sense of the other person being cold or cruel to you at times
- They tend to ignore you when you need them most
- They are self centered and focus purely on themselves
Blessed Be!
Psychic Sensational!
